Serving others is win-win-win. You grow and are satisfied. Your community improves and people get what they need. Most importantly, when you "love because Jesus first loved us," his love is shared and celebrated.
Once a month, Illumine sends out an email compiling as many local volunteer and support opportunities as we can find. They're all linked (assuming there's a relevant website) and it should serve as a one-stop-shop for you and your family. It's better than arguing over Netflix. We promise.